The room got quiet. More than 100 accountants and bookkeepers watched as one brave volunteer sat across from me. He put on a green visor and became the accountant. I put on a purple one and became the unhappy client whose price was going up. Those visors were our costumes and “Voila”! We were in character. You could feel every tight throat, sweaty palm, and nervous stomach in the room. He was a brave soul. No one likes difficult conversations.
Before every hard conversation I have, an entire disaster scenario plays in my head. The client gets angry. They fire me. They tell every business owner in North America. Yelp and Google reviews explode with negative comments. By lunch, there are no clients and my career is in the dumpster behind Winn-Dixie. By dinner, I’m standing at the Port Orange I-95 off-ramp holding my homemade sign that says, “Will work for a QBO file.” A kind soul rolls down their window and hands me a shoebox full of receipts.
Am I the only one who plays this in their head before every hard conversation?
Then my volunteer accountant starts talking. He listened. He tried the language. He stumbled, laughed, and tried again. I pushed back. Nothing exploded. He did not even throw his green visor across the room. He stayed with it.
That moment captured what I carried home from Scaling New Heights 2026: AI now helps us prepare for a difficult conversation. It cannot sit in that chair and have it for us.
A Strange New World, indeed
Scaling New Heights 2026 brought more than 1,000 accounting professionals together for four days of learning, experimenting, connecting with old friends, making new ones, and trying to keep up with a profession moving at warp speed. The theme, “Strange New World,” fit.
AI now does much of the boring stuff. It captures receipts, enters transactions, reads invoices, categorizes expenses, matches payments, reconciles accounts, and drafts reports. Anthropic’s Economic Index estimates 67.1% effective AI coverage for data-entry keyers. That does not mean AI completes 67.1% of every accounting job. It shows where AI makes its biggest dent: repetitive, time-consuming work.
Getting numbers into the right boxes was never the most important part of our work. We still check the answer, apply our expertise, explain what the numbers mean, and talk with clients about what happens next. AI processes data. It cannot build the relationship or lead the conversation that helps a client succeed.
Scaling New Heights did not present AI as a magic trick or a monster under the desk. Sessions showed us how to use generative AI, build agents, improve client deliverables, automate work, and think strategically. The vendor floor featured more than 100 solutions for bookkeeping and tax. Technology gives us more room for work that matters.
The best part was hearing people compare notes, ask how others use AI, and admit what still confuses them. Scaling gave us a safe place to say the quiet part out loud: Yes, many of us fear how AI impacts our profession. Where do we fit? What happens to the work we have always done? What comes next? Scaling put the excited people and the skeptics at the same table. We need both. We do not need cheerleaders yelling, “AI will fix everything!” or doomsday hobbyists preparing for the next Zombie Apocalypse. We need curious professionals protecting our clients and asking better questions.
AI gives us time back. But what good is that time if we are still avoiding the conversations we need to have?
A cleaner dashboard does not tell a client that their cash problem has become dangerous. An automated workflow does not tell an employee that their performance must change. A perfectly drafted email does not set a boundary until you send it and stand behind it.
The conversation problem hiding inside the technology problem
My session, “Handling Difficult Conversations with Language, Courage and Clarity for Accountants,” drew 118 attendees. Forty-two completed the evaluation. The session received an NPS of 88, and attendees rated the learning objectives and materials 4.83 out of 5. I am incredibly grateful that they rated my effectiveness as an instructor 4.9 out of 5.
The comments told a better story.
Attendees mentioned the exercises, role-plays, vulnerability, practical language, and the chance to discuss what we usually keep to ourselves. They did not want more theory. They wanted words for when a client says, “That is too expensive,” “Can you add one more thing?” or “I will send the information when I get to it.”
That feedback confirmed what I already suspected. We do not need another speech about communication. We need to practice opening our mouths before a real client is staring back at us.
Preparation creates courage
Panic is not a preparation strategy. I know. I have tested it extensively. We started with PREP:
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Purpose: Why are we having this conversation now? |
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Reality: What are the facts, without drama or accusation? |
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Empathy: What might the other person be experiencing? |
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Plan: What happens next? |
PREP does not make the other person agree. It stops you from walking into the conversation carrying panic, assumptions, and a speech nobody requested.
Then we practiced LEAD: Listen, Empathize, Answer, and Direct. Your client always sends documents late. Listen. Acknowledge what they have going on. Then tell the truth: late information delays the work and risks deadlines and accuracy. Direct the next step: “I need the requested items by Friday. If they arrive later, we will move your work to the next available opening.”
Clear does not mean cruel. Empathy does not mean surrender. A boundary without a consequence is merely an interesting sentence.
The next step is human
Scaling New Heights 2027 takes the AI conversation where it must go next. AI already handles much of the repetitive work in accounting, bookkeeping, and tax. Now we focus on what only people can do. We love, empathize, mentor, calm a frightened client, and speak the truth from lived experience. When Joe Woodard introduced the 2027 theme, “Transcend the Machines,” he said it best: “AI has no SOUL.”
AI is not lowering our value. It is exposing where our value was hiding all along.
Information is everywhere. Judgment is not. A machine can draft ten versions of a message in seconds. You still have to choose the honest one and say it. AI may even sort the shoebox of receipts. It cannot tell the client what the numbers mean or what to do next.
The accountant who thrives next will know the technology and bring judgment, curiosity, empathy, courage, and the ability to say hard things with respect. We must bring the one thing no app delivers: SOUL. Trust me, I checked. There is always another app.
AI now helps you prepare for the conversation. It challenges your assumptions, anticipates objections, suggests language, and lets you rehearse. Use it. Then close the laptop, look at the person, and speak.
The machine can provide the words. Courage begins when you say them. I can’t wait to see all of you next June at Scaling New Heights 2027.
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